It's no surprise that we all know Men & Women communicate differently. Let's face it we all know Women mature faster than men. But why is that? Honestly I have to say I can't give you a straight answer for that. There are many different possibilities as to why that could be. Today I'm here to talk about the Female Guide To Male Communication.
1. Keep it simple.
Keep it five words or less. Don't get over accurate or go on about something you know he doesn't care about or want to listen to. Studies show men use half the words of a women. Lets not confuse them. Lets get them on the same page.
2. Men love to be Right just as much as Women.
Don't argue about whose right or whose wrong. Just agree that your both right or that your both wrong. As difficult as this may be (and I know this from first hand experiences believe me) you gotta do what you gotta do. I have seen many relationships get destroyed because of stupid arguments like that.
3.Stay talking about one subject.
Women find it easy to go from topic to topic. Men's brains don't function like that. They can only go so fast and comprehend so many things. Keep away from the confusion and focus on only the important topics.
4. Say it once & only once.
Don't repeat things over and over again. Eventually that will only frustrate men and then they will tell you your nagging them, pushy, and just ways to start a argument. Say things once and only once. if they don't do it, try something like a protest. For example; My fiancé works days and I only work part time , but I also run 2 home business's & work 2 part time job's plus I have a lot to do through out my days! When he comes home and the laundry isn't done the way he likes it. The house isn't completely clean or the dishes aren't all done and he complains or gets upset I tell him simply that if he's going to complain that he can do his own S*** himself. I'm not his mother, I'm not going to baby him, I'm not going to do everything he needs right the minute he asks. I tell him numerous times to put his laundry in the basket, or to clean when I'm at work nd he never does it. Eventually I just give up and let him realize if I ask a simple thing that I expect a little help.
5. Men are not mind readers.
Men don't know what your thinking. you cant expect them to know every single thing your thinking. Communication needs to be apart of every relationship. You need to communicate effectively. If your feelings are hurt; tell him. if your sad; tell him. Don't ever let what your thinking or feeling go unnoticed because if he doesn't know what's wrong how can he ever make you happy or feel better.
Alright ladies that's my top 5 tips for male communication. I learned these tips first hand from my own relationship and I hope they help all of you in some way! Ill see you in my next post!
Later gators!
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