Hey Hey Bloggers!
What is everyone up to on this lovely Wednesday!?
Today has been great, I actually had a video conference with a director who is interested in having me audition for his 3 upcoming films, EEEEEK!!!!I'm so excited. But other than that I have been cleaning, switching my Fiance & I's room with our kids & then i'll be going to the gym to work out!
So let's talk Fame; Who doesn't want to be famous right? lots of money, big houses, makeup artists, photoshoots, fans etc! One thing I am most definitely not excited for is the paparazzi..... like come one they basically get paid to just get embarrassing moments or leak secrets to the public. It will really feel like I wont be able to go anywhere or have a personal life..... But above all, I always said that one day I'll be famous for something,. Maybe my recent events are telling me I will be famous. Believe me I will be the BOSS BABE that I am and never give up on this!
Lets talk about Friends; Friends mean a lot, without having your friends around when you succeed you will be alone. They support you, empower you, & they are always their for you! Never forget your friends when you reach the top, & never mend relationships with people you feel like only care because your famous. I have ONE bestfriends. we have been friends since we were 6. We went to school together, we did basically EVERYTHING together. I will never forget her.
Let's talk Love; Money cant buy love. & Love isn't easy to get! Before anyone can love you; you first have to love yourself!! Let me give you five simple ways to love yourself (at least these are ways on how I learned to love myself).
Step #1 : STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHER PEOPLE
She's prettier than me...... She's smarter than me..... She gets all the guys.... She has a flat stomach.... She has the perfect family life.... She has more money than me! STOP IT!!!!! Your all beautiful, I learned the hard way comparing myself to others will only make make me depressed & miserable. Learn to love the beautiful human being god created!
Step #2 : IF YOU DONT LIKE SOMTHING CHANGE IT!
For years, even till this day I struggle with depression & self esteem. Those aren't easy to overcome but everyday is a constant daily battle to do so. I started things I love doing that I haven't done in years. I started dancing again ( I have always been the happiest to just blast music and dance like crazy as if no one is watching) I started working out 4-5 times a week with my Fiance, I started acting & modelling! I have done all those things to make my self feel better & improve my mental health. You can to. All you have to do is believe in yourself.
Step #3 : GET RID OF NEGATIVE INFLEUENCES IN YOUR LIFE! START BEING POSITIVE!
Stop hanging out with the people who are always complaining, always nitpicking at parts of you, the people who rather go to a club every night or smoke a joint before bed than work, and relax and building the future they want and deserve. Let me tell you those people will not be supportive, encouraging or even be apart of your future when you build up the lifestyle you want and deserve.
Step #4 : GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE BITCH!!!
Why on earth do we have a comfort zone? Let me tell you why! without our comfort zones we would always be doing the same thing, always doing what makes us comfortable. We need to get uncomfortable, we need to push ourselves. I run a small business and my success is all based on stepping out of my comfort zone, I have to talk to new people everyday, I have to pass out samples, talk about my business. It's scary, trust me I know, I never want to hear the words no from someone but I know the more no's I hear the more closer I am to getting yes's. You cant stay in your circle of Friends & Family forever.
Step #5 : COMPLIMENT YOURSELF!
I want you to literally stand in front of a mirror each morning and night when your brushing your tell & give yourself one compliment. Give yourself some credit for being a kickass babe!
Lastly let's talk about Money; Why does money have to run on this world, everything rely's on whether or not you have money. SAVE YOUR MONEY. Buy things you need, not things you want. If you don't know the difference ill tell you. A need is usually a fixed necessity, such as Rent, Groceries, Phone Bill Etc. A want is always a impulsive spend such as Fast Food, Makeup, Marijuana ( if you smoke it) Etc. Always be smart when it comes to money, it can go way faster than its made and its by far very hard to earn.
I think I typed enough for one day! Ill see you Bloggers in my next post! Don't forget to follow me on my social Media. See ya later rockstars!
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